April 2, 2008 

and it begins…

It’s quite surreal how one just slips into domesticity and all-round wifey-ness. It feels like I’ve been here all my life.

I’m still in that eager-to-please mode, bombarding The Other with msn missives; “Was your breakfast still warm? Were the eggs fine? Was lunch ok or did I overdo the tomato sauce? Are the leftovers from your mum fine for supper? etc etc etc”.

No worries, that kak will soon end;)

I thought getting married meant suddenly acquiring an adult-mindset. I’m still playing house, and it is great fun.

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11 Responses to “and it begins…”

  1. 'liya April 7, 2008 at 12:06 am #

    I agree with fatima to enjoy – I’m still playing house too! – it’s fun :D

  2. Fatima April 4, 2008 at 6:40 am #

    It’s definitely like playing house :)
    The adult mindset is boring :)

    enjoy this post honeymoon period – 2mths later i still am!

  3. ZK April 3, 2008 at 10:43 am #

    mmm yah i can :) just about lol

  4. Ta^KiLLa April 3, 2008 at 8:37 am #

    LoL @ RiazJ..

    So Salz.. Hows it to be “domesticated” as such.. I bet its another kind of feeling..

    Zk – U can cook.. LOL

  5. Dreamlife April 3, 2008 at 5:23 am #

    it is amazing how things just fall into place naturally. obviously we learn as we go along and get better at the ‘being a husband/wife’ thing – but it’s like we’re already programmed to be a husband or wife, and that just sits dormant for your life. and then, once you get married, it just kicks in, and you’re up an away.

    hope the adjustments go well, and that even once you’re past the ‘bombarding’ stage, you still keep up the concern about that…because, you should know, food is important to a guy.

    i didn’t think it was so big a deal, but now that i’m being spoilt, i realise it is….

    no pressure, just a tip ;)

  6. ZK April 2, 2008 at 1:10 pm #

    oooo by the by
    i can cook i can cook wooohooo
    who would have thought :D

  7. ZK April 2, 2008 at 1:08 pm #

    hehehe
    it seems you were also that way before you left us ;)
    mwah
    i hungry and there no one anymore to tantalize my tastebuds :P
    mwah

  8. RiazJ April 2, 2008 at 12:51 pm #

    Sofi, I was referring to an old post title Saals did in wordpress! Haha! You’re brilliant Saals! Hope your hubby doesnt come looking for me!

  9. Sofi April 2, 2008 at 12:33 pm #

    :@rizj :O some people have no self respect or posess basic etiquettes

    Sals: I hope he’s doing his fair share of engaging in Temporary Honeymoon Domesticity Bliss*! :P

    Nah, kidding. May you guys stay happy forever. You look gorgeous together. Mwah.

    * Its a phrase i will use to describe newly weds..since i’m currently surrounded by them. Not green with envy at all. Promise..

  10. Saaleha Bamjee-Mayet April 2, 2008 at 11:58 am #

    riazj – I think you need to have a talk with your parents about what it is that married people do:)

  11. RiazJ April 2, 2008 at 11:55 am #

    So did your cherry get popped like the Aveo’s? Lol

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